Spring Festival, home to people stopping by, from which my brother and sister learned to play on the Internet in the 3366 games, all of a sudden they fell in love, so this time I was strictly to control him.
I do not agree, because before the weekend with him to play only after job is completed will a little. Then he got angry. Appeared very upset, and I continue to wear. Once again, I turned him down. He said he was angry, he did not like me, there are so many from the earth to heaven is not like it.
Then I remembered that lesson this week, the contents of his emotional intelligence is to recognize anger and resolve just angry mood. There is no use to try. I said: “You are feeling angry, and I remember the jingle sister has to teach you three ways to drive away angry mood, oh. What is the method of it?” He stared at me impatiently, not to speak. I said: “Oh, yes, the first method is to change variable change, we try it?” Is a psychological operation implied by the hand to read out the suggested action and calm mood, he angrily said: “I do not . “
I continued:” Then we try the second method, a small mirror. “, but also psychological implications, imagine a mirror in his hand, imagine yourself in the mirror angry face dialogue with the person in the mirror, He said: “I do not want.”
“emotional trash then try it.” I said. , The third method, the angry mood of strokes out on paper and then group off or removed, thrown into the emotional trash, sent packing angry mood, he said: “But we do not make emotional trash.”, homework this week, I laughed within herself, he agreed to try this method to prove that sentiment has begun to ease down. If not how playing games, and I said: “Never mind, when we get our trash bins with emotion, then we will produce a hurry.” He said, okay, said he would paint a very angry very angry .
then began to chat with me on the way, I almost forget that he angry, he said to go home to find pen and paper, I come to think that he does not drive away his anger.
very seriously he drew a small boy, and then bring them back to me. Hair is erected, the mouth is pulled under. Ah, indeed is very angry. He pointed to the feet of the little boy asked me whether I knew how, I look closely, only to find not the same as two feet long, he said: “This is the angry time in stamping it.” He blew a little stamp me.
I control my smile and continue to look at him. He added: “But I still very angry.” I did not speak, he called the paper to get past, in the next drew an angry little girl, the girl hands are holding his fist on the move, and it is very angry.
He then brought me painting when I could not help saying: “Painting was nice to stay together for a father back to him.” He said: “But this is to tear up or throw out of. “Oh, I almost forgot the purpose of this painting he had painted. Oh, this approach seems to still be valid, he is quietly doing these things.
However, he did not level a little bit more than angry, asked me: “Mom, you know how much I do not like you?” I said: “ah, it seems that so much from the earth to heaven it.” He looked at things in the kitchen cabinet, said: “even the biggest plus a bottle of the largest Arowana.”